rachel L asked: IM SORRY ITS KIND OF LONG!
As I’ve said in many of my answers/questions, I am a really strong Christian, so dating isnt important to me. If it happens, it happens. And i rarely grow to like someone A LOT, since im not even looking for or pursuing anyone. It just isnt a concern of mine.
However, there’s this one guy that i’ve liked for about a year now, and me and him have talked in depth about the situation, and we have agreed to be friends. It was super hard at first, and still kind of is. It’s like a rollar coaster for me. Some days I dont even think about it, yet others its impossible not to.
And the reason me and him connect so well is that we are both Christians and we have in depth conversations about it all the time. He’s pretty much the only one who understands that part of me, and I like to believe we are on the same page. We are really good friends, and we trust eachother, even though sometimes it’s hard for me to believe him when he says he trusts me , or he says he loves me. People at my school really are surprised when they hear that him and i are friends; he’s the senior jock, i’m the sweet, friendly sophomore girl.
(sorry this is long, i’m just giving some background)
Some people would say “whatta freak, dont ask advice on yahoo answers.” well folks, i have best friends, and we talk about it a lot. I just want a different perspective.
So basically, I need to get over him. It’s so hard, because I do love him, I love him a lot. And I just want him to be happy, and if that means without me, than so be it. But i need to stop wishing it were something else; I dont know how.
10 Points Definitely
Me and him have talked about this many times before, because i was always confused because he wasnt very clear. Did he like me, but not want to date to focus on God? or Did he not like me, and was being honest?
He told me that he just isnt interested in anybody, and needs to focus on God.
And that was months ago, much has happened since. So i need to get over him
To Tracy: Everything you said was so right on the nose, it made me cry. It was beautiful, thank you.
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